You're in the relationship. Technically.But there's something missing at the center of it. They are there - but not available. Together - but not connected. And no amount of patience, love, or explanation on your part closes the distance. Or maybe you're reading this because you wonder whether you might be the emotionally unavailable person in your relationships. Emotional Unavailability is the honest, research-based guide for both. Inside you will discover: ¿ The difference between situational withdrawal and the characterological pattern that doesn't change with patience ¿ The early warning signs - and why you keep missing them ¿ Why people keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners ¿ The emotionally unavailable person's actual inner world ¿ What you can and cannot change in someone else ¿ Communication that helps - and communication that makes it worse ¿ When to stay and when to leave: honest guidance ¿ How to heal emotional unavailability in yourself ¿ How to break the pattern of who you choose ¿ What the emotionally available life actually looks like You were not too much.They were not available enough.And both of those things matter.